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My husband and I are ttc. We really thought i was pregnant last month and were really disappointed when I got AF two days early. People always say "stop trying and then you’ll concieve" or "don’t stress about it". But, when you really want to conceive, how is it possible not to try? Anyone have any success with this?
LMAO, I’m sorry for laughing but I asked the same question last month. We are now on month #7 TTC after a miscarriage back in March. Fortunately, I already have a 3yo to keep me occupied, but when you want something SO bad, it’s hard not think about it. I think I’m just about there though….when AF showed again this month (after I truly thought this was OUR month) I’m about ready to just say to hell with it. I broke down and used opk’s last month after saying I wasn’t going to and was testing like crazy hoping for a BFP. I DID however, stop temping much to my surprise. So now this month, the ONLY thing I’m doing is taking my multivitamin and concentrating on losing a few pounds (worked for me in the past lol) Best of luck to you and I hope you find something that works for you!! Baby dust!
yea really its true! I stopped the tests and it all, actually relaxed and just let it happen, I was for sure not pregnant when I was! gotch I was amazed!
Try another tactic. If you have used hormonal birth control for years then you may be experiencing reproductive exhaustion as your body mimicked pregnancy month after month, year after year. Some good ideas on the site below for this. G
What we did was we did not not try. LOL sounds really weird, I know… But we did baby dance and all but I stopped thinking about ovulation, about temperature, and all. It really worked as I got pregnant the next month.
The best tip I had was to have sex every other day. This way you are sure to hit the ovulation date but, at the same time, don’t have to stress about your cycle…
Baby dust!!!
I HATE that answer — ‘stop trying and it will happen’ or my other personal favorite ‘have fun while you’re trying’.
The truth of the matter is as long as your TTC in any way, shape, or form, it’s impossible to ‘forget’ that. I think when people say they ‘stopped trying,’ what happened in reality is they just gave up and either quit consulting a calendar each time they went to have sex or just didn’t get their hopes up.
I wish you luck and baby dust!
i’m w/ you on this. we have been TTC for 3 yrs and i’m about to start my 4th cycle of clomid. I have no idea if it works or not, but i know how hard it is. When all of your friends either are pregers or have kids, and when u have 4 nieces & nephews. it’s EVERYWHERE! and i feel your pain! good luck & lots of babydust!
I haven’t had success with it. Last month I was just genuinely disgusted with it all, and was very nonchalant about everything. I honestly didn’t care if it happened or not, and the feeling came naturally because I was so sick of it all. I think when people stop trying, the only way they are able to is because they are thoroughly disgusted with TTC. I think you have to give up with all your heart, like it cannot be a forced feeling, or a forced thing you do. Personally I think that feeling comes naturally. That’s why I think it’s so easy for other people to tell us that, because they just reached that point of being genuinely sick of TTC. Till, then it’s impossible not to think about it, but it is possible to find a way to stress less about it, whatever that may be, lol. Lots of luck and baby dust for you