I'm thirteen and I want to get pregnant?
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I really really really want to get pregnant. I’m lonely and I wanna have a baby, I think it would make my life much easier. But I have to have the baby with Justin Bieber, it would be really special to me if we could. Then we are going to move into a mansion with all his money. Do you think it will happen by the end of April at the latest?
Sweetheart, please talk to mom, your school counselor, a minister, a friend’s mom, or one of your female relatives about this. I know it may not seem like it but there are LOTS of people who love you and would never wish for you to get pregnant at this young age. I remember 13 – it was a very tough time in life and I frequently felt lonely and excluded. Now I’m a middle school teacher and I see it from the other side. 13 is a very difficult time in life but you have to remember that pregnancy results in a baby and that baby is yours FOREVER. There is no giving him or her back. Getting pregnant now is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Your feelings of loneliness are the temporary problem. Your life WILL GET BETTER! =o)
You have your whole life ahead of you right now. Having a baby will hold you back from doing a lot of fun things. You will feel more lonely than ever when all your friends are out having fun and you are at home taking care of a kid. Ever thought about being a foreign exchange student? Can’t do it if you have a kid at home. Ever wanted to travel internationally? Not with a baby to care for… too expensive to take him or her with you. Thinking of going to college? How will you pay for it AND pay for taking care of your child? Not to mention paying for food, clothing, shelter, insurance, car, gas, cell phone, internet, cable, etc. You think this Justin kid wants to be tied down at such a young age? Think again. He won’t be giving you any more support than he has to by law and that ain’t much!
Please consider getting involved in a church that has an active youth group. Please seek out someone to help you deal with your feelings. Please understand that there’s someone out there (me) who cares very much what happens to a 13 year old stranger (you). And I pray to God that you take better care of yourself than I did of myself – I lost my virginity at 14 and that was probably one of the most stupid things I ever did! I wish I had waited. There was nothing glamorous about sex at your age. I felt lonelier than ever on top of feelings of guilt and feelings of having cheapened myself. It took a long time for me to forgive myself and move on. Please learn from the mistakes of this stranger and think through the consequences of your actions.
On the bright side, I waited until I was married to the right man to have a baby. We waited a couple years until after we were married to make sure our marriage was strong enough to bear the burden of having a family. My baby is now 4 months old and I’m so glad I waited until I was older to have her. My husband and I are both established in careers and financially stable. We don’t have the stress of "not enough money" to add to the stress of having a demanding baby.
Life with a baby is hard. Establishing a career is hard. Going to college is hard. Shoot, graduating high school is hard, too. Do you want to do all of that AND burden yourself with a hard life of having a baby? Please think about this now before you go down a road that you cannot come back from.
Good luck and I’ll be praying for you!
Don’t you have friends?
umm thats not gonna happen
It is not genetically possible to have a baby with her. I’ve heard she is really into guys too…so I think your plan is ruined.
Sorry.
Thanks again for the points!
i think you should wait a few more years… but that’s just my opinion….does it have to be justin bieber?
troll
I sincerely hope that you are trolling. This is insanity at its most dangerous. First of all, no thirteen year olds’ life will be made easier by having a baby. Second of all, while I do believe Justin Bieber is an annoying imbecile who should immediately see a doctor because he is sixteen and his voice has still not broken, I’m sure he would have enough sense to have his people have you arrested if you go to him petitioning such a ludicrous idea. Please, please be trolling. I’m pretty sure you are, but even the slight chance that you may be serious is enough to make me question my faith in humanity.
I think you’re still asleep & dreaming………
no, back off!! he’s mine!!
gosh i didnt know he was a player–he’s dating you too??! i thought he was only dating me?!
and he says that im the perfect age for him so yeahh. BACK OFF!!!
haha im just kidding ;D he’s ALL yours. go ahead and have the kids! but then it will HURT real BAD when they really come out! but then justin will be holding your hand and saying "sweetie, that’s okay. it’s alright. i love you." okay right now im just fantasizing. sorry sometimes i just start blabbing
Ah, to be a teenager again. Where you get everything for free and life has no consequences. I always wanted to marry Christian Bale. Sadly, we are both happily married to other people.
Justin Bieber’s got a career to worry about honey, not a friggin baby with someone as unintelligent as yourself. ♥
umm 1st off a baby will not make your life easier it will make it 10 times more crazy and I know me being 24 years old when I had my son. I did not expect the amount of time and work that it takes to raise a newborn. And the older he gets the more time and work that it takes. Please find a hobby that is not sex. and do not get pregnant at such a young age, please wait till you are at least 18 years old before even thinking about a baby of your own. There are other things that you can do instead of sex, find your self, play with yourself and find out what you like and discover yourself 1st before letting anyone else discover your body. Masturbation is normal and is very recommended at such a young age, if you are thinking of sex at all. I know I sound like a crazy old person, but I am only 24 years old, and my husband is my 1st and he will be my only. I know this does not hold true for most people but please at least wait until you discover your own body for a few years, like till you are at least 16-17 years old before sex. Please also research on STD’s, this is very likely if you start having sex now, or even later if you end up having more then one partner. Or even if your 1 partner is infected when you have sex with them. Sweety you will not be with the person that you are in love with now, a year from now or even in 6 months from now. PLEASE DON’T HAVE SEX YET! PLEASE WAIT TO HAVE CHILDREN UNTIL YOU CAN AFFORD THEM.
KEEP DREAMIN’
go to maury ahaa.um you should wait maybe 10 years your too young and a baby isn’t cheap theres diapers,formula,and clothes so yeah
I can’t even begin to tell how much that made me laugh.
And cry.
Dont you have dolls to play with?
hell no…. ur crazy!!! go play with ur barbies
ahhh, to be F’ing retarded, it must be nice
Get a dog!! Or maybe a doll!
WTF
you wanna have Justin Bieber’s babies????
how about you look after my baby and then think about how much easier life would be after an hour or 5 of having an over tired newborn screaming in your ear
hunny that is not gonna happen,,
For fuck sake kiddo, what’s your god dam problem. Having a baby isn’t going to make your life easier miss stupid, its a stressfull job, you have to get up early, feed it, dress it, give it love be there for it 24/7 while balancing studies. If your fucking lonely, go and make some friends instead of moaning abot it, because nobody wants to here it you got that. My parents have to pay taxes for fucking teenager parents which I would call scounge of out society.
I wholeheartedly support all of the above. I’m 16 and a half and still don’t think I’ll be ready for a baby even in 10 years. And one thing more. You don’t stand a chance with Bieber, because he’s not into pessimistic middle school girls.
P.S. Be a kid while you still can! Don’t waste your time on foolish dreams like that!