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I’m currently 4 months pregnant and my husband left me. I’m so hurt because this was a planned pregnancy and we have a 2 1/2 yr old together. I live alone and find it hard for myself to properly care for myself the way is should since i am constantly depressed. Any suggestions as to how i can help myself coupe with this or has anyone else gone through something similar?
Thats horrible… so sorry
You shouldnt be alone… do you have a mother close by? Are you close to your mother… or a sister? You need a female companion right now…. someone who will comfort you and be there for you when you need to talk. This is really sad… what a coward…. your husband is.
You will be okay. Just love those babies to death… they are innocent in all this and they love you unconditionally. when your feeling down, rub your stomach and tell that baby you will do right by it… dont let that jerk of an ex husband ruin this bonding time. Forget him…just take his money… check your feelings in the toilet.
Dont be depressed … please… its not good for a developing fetus….. you need to tell your doctor about all this… if you havent already. And do reach out to a friend or family member…. people will be fine helping you out in this situation….. I would if anyone I knew needed support….
I havent quite been in this situation but when I got pregnant there were issues… my husband said he wasnt ready to be a dad… and I said, well, your going to be on so suck it up…. and he was kind of an a$$hole about it for a few months… we were a double income no kids travel when we want kind of couple and the thought of having a baby scared the crap out of him…. well…. I told myself and my baby one night that I choose baby… if he cant deal with it, so be it and i was ready to be alone…. but he came to. The point is, the baby came first.
good luck to you
Take correct vitamins and start eating properly.
Hang out with people who love you to get your mind of it.
Your about to have a baby you should be so excited! Even tho your husband left you…he sounds like a jerk to me!
You two will sort things out eventually, in the mean time LOOK AFTER YOUR SELF.
Go to the pharmacy today and buy your vitamins
Wow, that’s terrible. He perfectly knew you were pregnant and left you just like that? Ugh what kind of man is that. Just hangout with your friends and your family to keep your mind away from the situation.
You need a good friend to sit and listen and help you get through it. Take it day by day. So sorry for your troubles .If you need to talk just message me and I will listen and help you as much as I can
Allow your motherly love for your children give you that lift you need now more than ever. Let them say in the future they had a strong mother who loved them enough not to let life get to her and moved on giving them the best she knew how instead of drowning in a pity pond.l
Wow…I have no answer for ur question…just that im sorry, its a sad situation…
Family Court costs you nothing and you don’t need a lawyer. You speak to the intake person.
Bring your child’s birth certificate. Bring your bills.
Tell them your husband left you. You want temporary custody of your child and the unborn child. You want child support and spousal support. You want all money paid through the court so you don’t have to worry about getting it.
Do this tomorrow.
do some meditation ..try to keep urself calm..feel happy tht u rbearing a child instead of thinking abt the divorce..let things happen but stay in peace
Turn all of your anger, frustration, disappointment, etc… into positive energy, making your main focus taking care of you. If you don’t take care of you right now, you won’t be able to take care of the baby on the way, or your 2 yr old.
Try to focus on the blessings you have, and surround yourself with those who truly care about you for support during this difficult time. Eventually, you will look back on all this and realize being a single mom is much better than being with a selfish, self-centered man. I know you have a lot on your plate, and are probably putting everything before you, but take care of YOU FIRST AND FOREMOST, so you can give your children the mother they need.
Soon enough, you will look back and realize that you would have been carrying around dead weight (him) and be thankful this happened now rather than in ten years from now.
Best of luck, and you are not alone.