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and she is only 16?? She told me right out that she has stopped taking her birth control and that her boyfriend doesn’t know that she isn’t taking her birth control anymore. I have tried talking to her. Her dad has tried talking to her. Even her older siblings have tried talking to her but she is still determined to get pregnant. Should I tell her boyfriend that she has gone off the pill? Any suggestions?
Of course tell her boyfriend as a mom why would you even consider not telling him??? You need to put your foot down and start being a parent.
Kick her out. I think a little tough love is in order.
She’ll come back, don’t worry. You just need to show her that if she thinks she’s such an adult then she needs to act like one and be her own woman and support herself.
You could also talk with the boys parents/not allow him under your roof.
Talk to her tell her how hard it is and make her see its not the right time, take her to see someone
sorry to hear this, good luck
Ground her,. Tell her boyfriend and also tell his parents.
Tell her boyfriend, unless you’re ready to be a grandma. I don’t suppose you can make her get an implant.
your daughter is not ready for this… and mind you … you will be the one who will end up with the baby to baby sit an all… please ask het to move out and act like a adult first if she wants to have kids and also ask her to find baby sitters to baby sit because you are also not ready to be a grand ma yet…
Ask her how she wants to take care of the baby. She´s just 16 and if she still lives with you I guess she ´s not independent yet. Tell her realistically how demanding and difficult raising a child is. And of course make her tell her boyfriend she´s on the pill anymore. It´s unfair to him. She has no right to be lying to him. Just try opening her eyes. Why would a 16y/o unmarried girl still living with parents want a baby?!
oh yes, tell him for sure. I sympthise with you – you’re in a tough situation
why would u consider not telling her boyfriend, not only is she being stupid and selfish shes also being arrogant, by trying to trick her boyfriend into getting her pregnant. And if you willing to let this happen you yourself shouldnt of had children!
I would tell her to leave your house, if she wants to act like an adult she needs to be one.
Tell her if she wants a baby that she is going to support it.
Yes you should deff. tell her boyfriend, it is not right.
Sounds like she needs help, if she actually knew how much money a baby cost, and how hard it is she wouldnt be the way she is.
Good luck.
Drag her butt to the clinic and make sure she gets a shot or something she "cant" stop.
Tell her boyfriend he has a right to know, then see what he decides because he may not be so eager to be a dad. Nothing you can really do if your daughter chooses not to use birth control etc,
Yes tell the boyfriend!
yes, tell your daughters boyfriend he deserves to know then he can decide to wear condoms or just not have sex with her until she goes back on it.
But if i was you i would drag her to the hospital/doctor and get her an implant, that will stop her getting pregnant for 3 years, if she refuses then drag or bribe her there.
try some tough love. tell her if she feels that she is adult enough to make a decision on bringing a baby into the world at 16 then she can do other adult things as well such as 1. get a job 2. pay her phone bill, car insurance, pay for any gas she uses with the car, and make her pay a small amount for rent.
these are all things that adults have to do see how she handles it. maybe she will realize she cannot do it + have enough for diapers, baby clothes, baby food, ect.
call the boyfriend and talk to them together on the situation and see what she says with him around and see what he thinks of this whole thing as well!
good luck!