Why are so many young girls intentionally trying to get pregnant by their Boyfriends?
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I just don’t understand it. Yesterday I spent several hours in the Pregnancy section of YA. There had to have been at least 15 question written by young girls trying to get pregnant with their boyfriends. Why would a girl want to do that? Is it to be covered under medicaid for the hospital bill? I can think of no other reason why a woman would do this to themselves. Please, explaine your logic. Maybe you have a valid point I’m not getting.
Because the young girl is missing a major importance from her Dad or father. If her Dad or father is not giving her the proper love that she needs from him, she will look elsewhere. Unfortunately young girls learn to equate sex with love, and then draw a conclusion that if they have a baby that their boyfriends will love them even more. The sad thing is that they generally are only saddened to find out that the boy feels trapped and generally runs away in horror and ignores the new baby as well as the young girl who only wanted to be loved. So, it really starts with the male role model when they were even younger. This is sometimes a result from a single parent home as well as from a man in their young life who has molested them, or just completely ignored the young girl.
Usually it depends what color they are, because lots of a certain color have no daddy around.
MAYBE it is the lack of sex education they are getting
i believe if the parent’s aren’t doing the job the schools should do it
they aren’t getting adequate sex ed at home, schools should step in and do it for them
The real answer is that is what nature intended for boys and girls to do , have sex when they are able to to reproduce.
But most people will tell you other things like: Girls are Stupid or girls and women frequently mistake sex for love and think by getting pregnant they are going to keep their boyfriends. And if they can’t keep their boyfriends they think at least they will have a souvenir. And some girls think that a baby will fill the emotional void in their life and that a baby will love them unconditionally. So guys if you are not ready to be someones father use a condom.
because they are stupid
They think it will keep their boyfriend, but usually they will break up. Girls who do not grow up with a father, usually have emotional issues when it comes to boys. They will use them as tools to feel better about themselves. They have really low self-esteem, and think that a baby will love them unconditionally. That’s ultimately what they want, is just to be loved. It’s tragic, but so common nowadays.
Because there stupid and they probably wanna trap there boyfriend into a life long commitment that will ruin his life. Boys need to run far far away whenever they think there girlfriend is onto something or else you will be ending the rest of your fun years.
because they r stupid srry it is sort of mean but it is true why would u want to ruin your future like that?
they want to enhance their chance to get married
any 1 chat with me
Desperation. They think it’s a way to keep a man. Yes, it’s stupid, but that’s what happens when the cow who’s been giving the milk for free still wants to be bought. It’s the sour fruit of the sexual revolution – what happens when the deep desire for sexual relationships to be committed relationships is thwarted by society pressure for promiscuity. It’s my opinion men want relationships too, but are even less able to control themselves…
I am a very big opponent to women doing this. Soon, the issue will cease to be a problem because the male birth control pill will come out, putting the power of choice back into the hands of men, where it belongs.
However, there is a biological basis for this. A woman has only a short time of fertility and needs to create her life within that time period. Her fertility maxes at around age 18 and stays high until about age 25. Between 25 and 30, it drops off markedly. After age 35 it drops off to near zero. Women need to find a good man, at a young age and have their children young, is the issue. This is a problem since our culture currently does not support this. Yet, the biological urge remains.
It is a woman’s responsibility to channel that urge into something positive. In other words, it is a woman’s responsibility to find a decent man in her late teens, early 20′s and get married. Women, as a group, have shirked this responsibility. So, they become victims of their own biology and a similar pathology with regard to men.
Because they want to be grown like grown-fokes, and do what they do. they parents should be putting them on birth control pills, if they know there kids out there having sex. Some people parents don’t care, because they probably went threw it when they were young.
There are many reasons for these young girls. Some feel it brings the relationship closer. Some feel like playing dolls. Some feel that it’s right, they have found their partner and this is the one they’ll grow old with. Most cases it’s for selfish needs like some who have babies to get a council flat when they don’t want to be living at home any more.
But sometimes it’s what they see is naturally the next step to take in a relationship.
It is a lack of self-esteem they have for themselves, and also a lack of real love in the home
I would say its just lack of intelligence. 99.99% of them will most likely end up divorced and struggling as a single parent at age 18. It happened to my best friend.
Being I’m a mother I would think this is a usually case of jealousy, revenge, trust and insecurity. Yes, her outcome is she’ll blame it on him. It takes 2. I think welfare has loads of these lonely souls, I would advice consultation by an Psychologist. My sister had yes a oops. Tell me about it. Our father and mother were flipping my sister was going for her nursing exam one day instead winning a diploma she won first price in a healthful son in the hospital’s delivery-room but before that she broke water in the college’s lunchroom and was brought to hospital by ambulance, It was from a one night stand. My sister did try to get him to compensate afterwords, no success in this my parents and all family had there share to help pitch in. She done this to herself after I have had my own son a year before I knew anything her incident was a complete surprise for me being I”m older than her by 5 years.
I believe it shows how corrupt and selfish out society has become. This young girls are searching for acceptance and approval in all the wrong places! I think the best things we can do to prevent this is advocate for sexual education and pray for these kids!
Often girls and women are looking for purpose in their lives, or even an escape (from school, jobs, other expectations/responsibilities). They think that a child will bring them purpose. This can be true, certainly, but sometimes it brings more grief, stress, heartache, etc., as you mentioned.
A poll by Ann Landers (a deceased advice columnist) revealed that over 80% of parents later regretted having children.
That’s pretty strong testimony that in the long run (decades), parenting often is not as fulfilling as people had hoped it would be.
Children do not “belong” to parents, and often the disappointments they cause when they don’t think/act/turn out exactly like parents hope are heartbreaking to parents.
It takes incredibly strong, confident, open-minded people to be wonderful parents and truly, honestly love and respect children just the way they are.
Parenting is not for everyone. Too many people do it just because they’re a certain age, or their friends or siblings are doing it, or because they have trouble finding other purpose (volunteering/community service/worthwhile vocations, etc.), or because they’re lacking love, or they want to manipulate a boyfriend/spouse/parents, etc.
because it gives a meaning to their life’s. if they have a baby they have a reason to live, then they feel wanted and needed and loved by a person unconditionally, their own baby. and it is also a change in society. do not underestimate the power of those feelings. there is a saying that the strongest person is a mother taking care of her baby.
and finally, people regard young girls just as chicks or whatever, just u know, something to get laid. but people have a totally different view on mothers. people respect them in a way, take care of them.