Why is it that people who desperately want a child can't conceive but others can?

"After one month of trying I became pregnant and had a beautiful healthy boy!"

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I work in an office next to our local children and youth.. the people I see come through our building with kids amazes me…and yet here I am a perfectly healthy 25 year old woman and cannot conceive. It breaks my heart that some people who have children don’t realize how blessed they are and take it for granted! Do you ever get over the heartbreak of not being able to have a child of your own?

Everything happens for a reason it look my bf and me 8 month to conceive our daughter and they say after having you first its easier to have your second but its been 5 months already.
Also some people think about having a baby to much and it throws your body of course. That’s what happened to myself I wanted a baby so bad my body faked a pregnancy for 2 months, it was really hard to think your pregnant and than go for a ultrasound and not even have a baby growing inside you.
But don’t worry hun your time will come, there is a time in the month that’s the right time to conceive a baby (go to google and type in Ovulation calender) use them they will tell you the 5 days that is best to make a baby. Or you can buy the ovulation predictor kits that are pricey. Or you have have sex every other day to be guarantee not to miss your chance.
I wish you luck hun and LOTS of baby dust your way.
Murphy’s Law.
Yes it does break my heart not being able to have a baby of my own….
I’ve been married 4 years and been trying to conceive for 2 but no luck so far. My husband loves children and cant wait to have one of his own. We’ve gone to multiple fertility doctors, underwent numerous treatments, and all in vain. But i do have hope that one day i will be a mother.
I guess its just easier for some than others.
I agree when you say people who have children should realize how blessed they are, instead most take their children for granted. Very Sad.
I hope you finally have the baby you desire. Dont give up. Keep trying and have fun in the process;)
its called nature
I feel your pain. Been trying to conceive since september 09 yet it seems EVERYONE around me are finding out "Crap! I’m pregnant!" My best friend just found out she was pregnant and NEVER wanted children. It hurts so much to see everyone around me pregnant or giving birth or being blessed with amazing children and here I am, being pessimistic.
My sister in law actually had the nerve to tell me "I don’t know why you are trying so hard. It’s a mistake to have children. You won’t want them once they are here. You will just pawn them off like every other mother does" (she has 3 children) and I think to myself "No! I want these children so bad. I want to cherish them, I want to provide for them and raise them and protect them and watch them grow. No way would that be a mistake"
Hi Jessie, im in the same boat as you, its very frustrating watching everyone or so it seems having babies, im not a bible basher or anything but have a little faith, a child will come your way.
good things can happen to good people too